First off, you deserve support before, during, and after an abortion. But not everyone might be as supportive as you’d hope. You know your life best, so trust your instincts about who you can tell. Here are a few tips to protect yourself:
Ask your loved ones to keep it private.If you decide to share, let them know it’s really important to keep it just between you and them.
Use apps like Signal for private conversations.Download the Signal app and
turn on disappearing messages.
This way, your chats won’t leave a trace. We recommend a short time, like a few days.
Check if you’re sharing your location.If you’re using apps like Find My Friends or Life360, it’s a good idea to turn off location sharing temporarily. But if that might raise questions, another option is to leave your phone at home or somewhere safe while you visit the clinic so your location isn’t tracked.
How to turn off your location:
iPhone //
Android
Be careful with social media.Avoid posting or checking in from locations related to your plans if you are keeping your abortion private.
Protect your privacy with a temporary Google number.
If you're worried about the person who pays your phone bill seeing your text messages and phone calls, consider creating a
free Google Voice number just for abortion-related conversations. You can delete it when you’re done, giving you extra privacy.